Need Help?

If you or someone you know is experiencing crisis, please use the resources listed below. If this is an emergency, please dial 911 immediately.

Are you looking for help? Trying to escape an abusive relationship, searching for resources, or just need someone who will listen?

There are people who can help.

For help that is anonymous and confidential 24/7, try one of these hotlines:

ALIVE: 314-993-2777

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Safe Connections: 314-531-2003 (Call or Text)

YWCA: 314-531-7273

National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) or TTY: 1-800-787-3224

More Resources

Are you concerned your relationship is unhealthy or abusive? There are places you can get more information and resources:

Member Agencies

ALIVE
Hotlines, Counseling, & Advocacy
St. Louis County: (314) 993-2777 Franklin County: (636) 583-5700
https://alivestl.org/
AWARE Program of Barnes Jewish Hospital
Other
314-362-9273
https://www.barnesjewish.org/Patients-Visitors/Domestic-Violence-Awareness
Crime Victim Center
Legal, Counseling & Advocacy
Main Office: 314-652-3623; Civil Legal Helpline: 314-664-6699
https://www.supportvictims.org/
International Institute
Other
314-773-9090
https://www.iistl.org/
Kathy J. Wienman Shelter
Shelter
314-423-1117
https://stlouiscountymo.gov/st-louis-county-departments/human-services/women-and-children-services/domestic-violence-program/
Legal Services of Eastern Missouri
Legal
314-534-4200
https://lsem.org/
Lydia's House (Transitional Housing)
Other
314-771-4411
https://www.lydiashouse.org/
National Council of Jewish Women - St. Louis Section
Other
314-993-5181
https://www.ncjwstl.org/
Redevelopment Opportunities for Women (ROW)
Counseling & Advocacy
314-588-8300
https://familyforwardmo.org/how-we-help/redevelopment-opportunities-women/
Safe Connections
Hotlines, Counseling, & Advocacy
314-531-2003
https://safeconnections.org/
Saint Martha's Hall
Shelter
314-533-1313
http://saintmarthas.org/
St. Louis Circuit Attorney's Victim Services
Legal
314-622-4373
http://www.circuitattorney.org/VictimServicesUnit.aspx
St. Louis County Domestic Violence Court
Legal
314-615-4642
https://wp.stlcountycourts.com/family-court/adult-abuse-domestic-violence-court/
The Angel Band Project
Other
314-240-5525
https://www.angelbandproject.org/
The Women's Safe House
Shelter
314-772-4535
https://twsh.org/
VA St. Louis Healthcare System
Other
314-327-6794
https://www.stlouis.va.gov/services/Intimate_Partner_Violence_Assistance_Program.asp
Victim Service Division of St. Louis County Prosecuting Attorney
Legal
314-615-4872
https://www.stlouiscountyprosecutingattorney.com/services-for-victims
YWCA Metro St. Louis
Hotlines, Counseling, & Advocacy
314-531-7273
https://www.ywcastl.org/